Mood and psychological state of a person, one way or another, it is projected on the surrounding area. To understand more about the nature of a new acquaintance, we just need to come back to him once to visit without an invitation. Here and appear before the eyes of a complete picture of a person's inner state. After the mess or the absolute cleanliness in the house can reveal hidden features of the host.
Disorder in the house from the point of view of psychology
The content of the article
- Disorder in the house from the point of view of psychology
- What problems in humans linked his mess?
There are two categories of people. At one in the house always perfect order and sterile cleanliness so that sometimes scared to touch a thing. The second, by contrast, are designed to create confusion around him, always and everywhere. In their house reigns chaos, and they are perfectly oriented in it, because they are used to live.
Psychologists and other experts say that the cause of the disorder may be permanent several states:
- loneliness and helplessness (experts say that throwing things, if a person "tags" its territory, trying to prove to everyone, and myself in particular, that he was there, he is a person; the appearance of the second half of this behavior is no longer appropriate, but old habits go away slowly and reluctantly);
- lack of attention (insecure people are trying to attract so more attention, trying to get the nourishment and energy support, which they do not have enough);
- unwillingness to grow up (a habit from childhood may do a disservice: usually it happens in children who grow up in a family of pedants, where the house was virtually sterile cleanliness - creating confusion they rebelled, trying to establish their own order, habit easily passes into adulthood and there is reluctance to change);
- constant feeling of anxiety (this often occurs in people who are deeply immersed in depression - this occurs for different reasons, such as death of a loved human or pet leads to the fact that people just do not want to change anything, clinging to their memories of the past and not turning his eyes now).
Important! Experts advise to take drastic measures, if the premises to one of the states have been seen. The house definitely need to scrub off all unnecessary stuff and open access to all new and good.
The liberation of space in the apartment, removing rubbish and scattered things - this is one of the methods of bringing a person to the normal state and adapted to modern conditions of life. This is the first stage, which should begin with the path to success.
What problems in humans linked his mess?
Often spreading things - it is an attempt to identify their own territory. All people are different, someone enough just one shelf to neatly stow all your stuff, and someone used to scatter them around the house and easily finds if necessary. This is not always a problem, simply because people used to live and does not want to change anything. Attempts to break down such stereotypes can cost the family fortune. Therefore, some families that have found mutual understanding, seem quite happy living in conventional disorder.
But the psychological problems that dictate such behavior, appear often. And here it is necessary to accurately determine the required qualified help or not.
To solve this problem, try to talk to someone. Maybe he just used to hang his trousers and shirts for all chairs, as well as to lay out his locksmith tools in all corners of the house, and this is not a psychological problem. But if he does not get enough attention, or there is a constant anxiety, self-doubt - need a psychologist.
About depression correctly written. In my experience, so I listen.
Yes, a mess. Yes, things are on the chair and magazines everywhere. The dust on the TV. Shaw Grita?
Depression in Me? How do you want yourself to regret this, I alone! All this garbage. Now undertake cleaning.
And elementary laziness why not take into account my kollegami- psychologists? ))))
Cleanliness and order in the house is definitely good, but do not bring this fanaticism.
Indeed, why not laziness? Or too lazy, too depressed?
To understand more about the nature of a new acquaintance, we just need to come back to him once to visit without an invitation. And this is considered normal? Maybe new friend does not want you on it is something understood and is not going to be friends with you families. Such a faux pas in our time does not renew the friendship. So to come can only close friends, relatives and true friends.
Again the psychological nonsense... .. well, too lazy to me laziness!
We have before birth was in the house clean, and after that - a mess. So what? This means that I have psychological problems? No. This means that the child likes to play and create. But if I had it all laid out igruhi immediately cleaned with a hiss, that's when I would have in my head a mess. So, the article is so-so.
