Once a person has recovered from the death of a loved one, it is a reasonable question - what to do with the late furniture? And if someone just get rid of things is not dead material losses, some furniture is an expensive item. However, some of the prejudices and emotional factors do not give just to carry a sofa or bed for garbage. It so happens that the funeral of a spouse, a wife or husband continues to sleep in total, with the deceased spouse, beds. In this article we looked at all the options, what to do with the furniture of the deceased.
What to do with dead furnishings
The content of the article
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What to do with dead furnishings
- Can I sleep on the bed / couch, on which slept late
- Whether to use the furniture of the deceased
- What do psychics
- What does the medicine
- What the church says
- conclusion
Action will depend on the awareness of how necessary this furniture. If it is expensive, functional or simply do not want to throw it, then here are some tips and thoughts.
Can I sleep on the bed / couch, on which slept late
In this case, there are two options: the deceased enjoyed simply bed or died right on it. In the latter case, it is highly desirable to throw out furniture. But if you still, for whatever reasons have to leave the bed, can not sleep on it. Firstly, if the deceased died from the disease, linen will be "tainted". Secondly, everything is imbued with extremely negative energy.
The people walking an interesting phrase: "It is better to sleep on the grave of the deceased rather than his bed." This is definitely some truth, especially if a person is ill for a long time and used this bed - then it is impregnated with anguish and suffering.
Whether to use the furniture of the deceased
At such moments heavy life hard to recover from the loss of a close person. It is worth a little wait to emotional pain subsided, and only then proceed to the revision of the premises where the deceased lived. Before deciding the fate of the furniture should be carefully weigh the "pros" and "cons." For example, if the room is a new cupboard in good condition, why not continue to use it. One has only to consider over the bed, as mentioned above, and on elements such as a chair, a bedside table and a personal wardrobe with clothes. From the point of view of psychic such furniture will not bring anything good.
What do psychics
All psychics in one voice insists that any thing of the deceased person has a negative power. Especially if he was dying on his bed - in this case it will have to throw away or spend the most powerful ritual cleansing of negative energy. In this case, it does not matter whether the person was in life a kind and sympathetic, or evil - the aura will always be negative.
What does the medicine
Imagine a situation: apartment of a deceased person, in which it is a long time suffered from any disease. In this case, all the doctors say that the room and, in particular, furniture, are not safe - there is a risk to "catch" the disease. It requires careful handling on all surfaces, prolonged ventilation of the room, the elimination of bedding, mattresses. For the first time, it is desirable to enter the apartment, it is better to go and see here constantly and repeatedly carry out cleaning.
In other moments, when there is no risk of contracting any disease, furniture, you can safely use. Then calmly and medicine refers to it, and scientists who have questioned the issue of any power and evil spirits. If the furniture is valuable to you, or simply it is still quite usable, it is reasonable to leave the house.
What the church says
In the Orthodox Church, we are convinced that the late furnishing needs sanctification. Priests agree with psychics that negative energy remains, as can be shown the evil spirits and demons. Sanctification takes place with the help of holy water and fire - the room you need to go with a candle, reciting prayers. Furniture deceased need to sprinkle holy water, who scored in any ecclesiastical source or purchased at the store.
In general, the Church calmly refers to the use of personal belongings and furniture of the deceased. For example, the clothes even made to distribute to the needy, which will be a good word to remember the deceased. However, it can be done only after the fortieth day, when the soul of the deceased had already gone to the other world. Similarly, the kitchen - use it only after forty days and compulsory consecration.
conclusion
The decision is always near the person of the deceased. If the furniture you want to leave, no one forbids, however, it needs to carry out a number of measures. For example, all surfaces should be thoroughly cleaned and wash, free from the things (wardrobe, bedside table, chest of drawers), throw clothes and mattress (bed). In the room where the man lived, we need to make a permutation and repair them for aesthetic reasons, to change the situation and blunting memories, associations. If you're superstitious and / or believes it is necessary to perform the ritual of purification and sanctification.
Most importantly, protect your health physically and psychologically. It is not necessary to give in to outside influence, you need to listen to yourself, to throw out a thing or not - your choice. The loss of a loved one - is always difficult, but it is important to move this vital stage and move on.
What kind of nonsense just will not write. And during the war after the slain soldiers wore boots, jackets padded jackets. And in the villages beds are not impossible to satiate, in-person hospital and died on the spot put another patient. Who invented it - hold your fantasies to yourself, not powder people brains.
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Good article, very informative. Thanks to the author. I think if you know these things, you can avoid later energy shock and opening portals, as we had ...
NOTHING WILL HAPPEN! Just do not think about it all... Use all you want... every heresy ponapishut here ...
I agree. At the hospital, change clothes after the deceased was sent to the morgue. Sometimes up to the discharge do not know what happened to you. Some secret, some hint. I wore a jacket rest Foot father, in memory of him. 21 years have passed and everything is normal, it is alive and well. Bullshit, that's what I say.
This article is a clean divorce on the money for the trade sector and the service sector, as well as churches and psychics. My brother happily wore garments beloved father did not wait for 40 or 9 days. My beloved parents at different times, died in my arms on the couch, where I slept before and after they left a lot of years, and I was 70. Do not believe these or similar articles from the business on the death customized for suckers. Grandmother and great-grandmother slept on the family bed, in which the sick and died of their husbands and have lived in your mind and health to 101 and 99 years old
This is how to hate the native people to shy away from them things and afraid to pick up some sort of prank.
money to buy new furniture horseradish
It is foolish to sleep in the bed where the man died. With the death of distinguished corpse poison. A short time and become infected. For the same reason desirable to kiss the deceased. Hatred of the mother at anything. Elementary hygiene. If the deceased had lain for a long time. The decomposition process has gone deep, it is desirable to throw out everything you can soak up the corpse bacteria, including plastic. Televisions and other... But the people - stupid and continues to cling to the things of the dead, and perhaps out of poverty.
And if you put on the bed of the deceased before the funeral? My uncle died in the village, and when we come to the old summer house, afraid there is not something to spend the night, and did not even go after sunset. We sleep in the hay. A very unpleasant situation. Sofa on which he died, thrown out, but he still put on the bed, and she's well worth it. Visited relatives, slept on this bed (in our absence, I did not even know) and according to neighbors, too, quickly moved to the barn
Nonsense a gray mare hypochondriac.
Oh, what nonsense it? Link to war is irrelevant, there were shooting things with is not the cooled bodies. Boots were taken rarely. Health and then was on the ball. By the way, you do not know? Dead things were disinfected during the war, before the change of the owner and it was out of poverty.
Do not believe in any nonsense in my father suffered from lung cancer, died 30 years ago at age 77, and his mother immediately went to take his place on his bed however the mattress, blanket and pillow was carried out of the house in Senik, Now my mother 91 years and feels fine, I mean for her age, still it helps us in the garden, and other housework It is doing??? please explain, psychics, can be or not to do so because I am deeply religious man, always I go to church, but I did not question my father asked, as we believe that the mother knew that I did ...
How many people - so many opinions
What nonsense just do not write. All this is complete nonsense. Properly written above in the comments: Wear and do not assume any nonsense. Who threw it used furniture? And in the wealthy families of graphs, princes, and even kings??? Beds these passed from generation to generation. It is now coming up with all kinds of trends become unjustifiable. Read and "diva dayus" war "shooting boots with the cooled bodies have not yet" ohohoh... .u my dad went through the war, is told... there ..kakaya "processing things"??? Do not tell anyone and do not write nonsense.
"Psychics" of all stripes should be planted for a long time. So many revelations have been, and all the people being ...
Complete nonsense, especially about the putrid poison in bed. After the death of a man quickly taken to a morgue. Kissing is certainly not necessary. But this is relative and desire.
Not nonsense it! My grandmother is hard to die in my bed for about two weeks before his death all the time, he threw off the blanket (and was in February, and in the apartment the temperature was no more than 25 °), she could not speak, but it seems like it hot, while my mother and I took cover tightly overnight. In general, grandmother died in her son's funeral came from another country, and began to sleep on her bed. Prejudices about the furniture of the dead we did not. The most interesting thing started then, when my uncle could not sleep or even relax on the bed, he (knowing nothing about that the grandmother threw off the blanket), also began to feel unexplained waves of heat, discomfort and ran away with this room. So there is something that we do not do not know.
I was his dead father doing CPR to save the hope of ESO was unpleasant but Samny Necho had happened live on today, I sense, from a cadaveric poison dead
Superstitions and prejudices. Why all this inspire people today? Debilizatsii and so successfully engaged our television Anyone who has experienced excruciating pain of losing loved ones, fear or disgust would not apply to things that resemble them. On the contrary, giving away things familiar - it is as if even in things continued life and a reminder of the family.
An interesting option is considered in the article. As a person living in the apartment alone. Pomer. And here we are, and throw out of his house all things. Fine! Unfortunately, in most cases live in the apartment have a lot of relatives, too, are those things that profited for years. And then it came over: illness, death, funerals, funerals - all flew a lot of money (and someone in bondage). And in Russia, full of honest people living on one salary, which can be seen only under a microscope. What do you advise them, gentlemen? Shoot!
Indeed, in fact, what to do son, if his life has become a survival? He lives with his mother - a pensioner with great difficulties, because he accidentally became himself an invalid of the 2nd group life,
then they get together only to a social pension. And the prices for everything are rising in today's world, as in "leaps and bounds", and thus have to save every penny, to somehow survive. After her mother's leaving him, too, to throw out furniture and to sleep on the bare floor? Or refer to Putin for clamshell gift? He when paying for utilities, medications, transportation and necessary expenses even food is not enough, and what to do in an empty apartment?
